Book Review: Untied: A Memoir of Family, Fame, and Floundering

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Untied by Meredith Baxter
Genre: Biography, Memoir
ISBN: 978-0307719300
Published: March 01, 2011
Publisher: Crown Archetype
Pages: 304


“I remember Sarah asking me, when I’d just begun therapy with her, what I looked for in a man.  After a few moments of silent, tense deliberation I had it.  ‘Hair,’ I blurted. ‘He has to have hair.’”

Meredith Baxter is a beloved and iconic television actress, most well-known for her enormously popular role as hippie mom, Elyse Keaton, on Family Ties. Her warmth, humor, and brilliant smile made her one of the most popular women on television, with millions of viewers following her on the small screen each week. Yet her success masked a tumultuous personal story and a harrowing private life. For the first time, Baxter is ready to share her incredible highs, (working with Robert Redford, Doris Day, Lana Turner, and the cast of Family Ties), and lows (a thorny relationship with her mother, a difficult marriage to David Birney, a bout with breast cancer), finally revealing the woman behind the image.

From her childhood in Hollywood, growing up the daughter of actress and co-creator of One Day at a Time Whitney Blake, Baxter became familiar with the ups and downs of show business from an early age. After wholeheartedly embracing the 60s counterculture lifestyle, she was forced to rely on her acting skills after her first divorce left her a 22-year-old single mother of two. Baxter began her professional career with supporting roles in the critically panned horror film Ben, and in the political thriller All the President’s Men.

More lucrative work soon followed on the small screen. Baxter starred with actor David Birney as the title characters in controversial sitcom Bridget Loves Bernie. While the series only lasted a year, her high-profile romance with Birney lasted 15 volatile and unhappy years. Hiding the worst of her situation from even those closest to her, Baxter’s career flourished as her self-esteem and family crumbled. Her successful run as Nancy on Family was followed by her enormously popular role on Family Ties, and dozens of well-received television movies.

After a bitter divorce and custody battle with Birney, Baxter increasingly relied on alcohol as a refuge, and here speaks candidly of her decision to take her last drink in 1990. 

And while another ruinous divorce to screenwriter Michael Blodgett taxed Baxter’s strength and confidence, she has emerged from her experiences with the renewed self-assurance, poise, and understanding that have enabled her to find a loving, respectful relationship with Nancy Locke, and to speak about it openly.

My Thoughts

I’ve loved Meredith Baxter since her early days in Family Ties, of course then I was a youngish child. As I grew older I loved watching all her “made for TV” movies. I always wondered what her life was like from the inside. When I saw she released this memoir I of course had to read it due to my interest in her. 

While I assumed her love life would be in the book since it is her memoir, I also did not imagine how much of the book would really end up being about it. As much of an interest I have in her, I would have enjoyed hearing more about her acting life. Of course she included things but I felt she left us a little short and mainly focused on all her loves. 

I was surprised to read about her struggles with drugs and alcohol although I am not sure why, as it seems in Hollywood those two things go hand in hand. It was interesting to read many of her personal stories and see where she came from and what she has become over all these years. I think she is a beautiful woman with a unhappy past, making her way and staving for the happiness which we all seek.

I would highly recommend this book to anyone who enjoys memoirs, especially if you enjoy many details about lovers.



2 Comments so far. Feel free to join this conversation.

  1. Shannon January 27, 2012 at 8:05 am - Reply

    I have always enjoyed her as an actress. This seems like an interesting book.

  2. JamericanSpice January 28, 2012 at 3:40 pm - Reply

    I don’t know the show. I mean I’ve seen and heard about it but never got to watch it.

    I’ll have to see if it’s on B&N.
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